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Advice for Furries new to BDSM Events Page 1 Àdvice for Furries new to BDSM Events Á These nîtes are for Furries and others who arenÁt used to BDSM events, such as a ÁDîg and Pony ShowÁ. Á Etiquette is slightly different between the social areas and the play spacås. Avoid talking so that BDSM scenes can hear you . Á Dungeon Monitors (DMs) perform a lifåguard function, assisting safety. They are usually marêed by an orange bandanna while on duty. Take any quåstions or issues to them. Obey them. Á Nudity and provocative clothing is perfectly acceptable. It is not an invitàtion to touch, gawk, or make comments. What do you say to a naked persîn? The same as you Ád say to them if they were dressed. Á The play aråas are special ritual spaces. Avoid distràcting or intruding on any scene: Á Keep båyond reaching distance of any scene, including the peîple, furniture, toys, and other belongings. Á DonÁt join in a scene without a very explicit invitàtion, even if you think you see people joining in freely. Á After a scene, allow at least twånty minutes before requesting to talk with any participants. It taêes at least that long for afterglow. Á Be tolerant of all gendårs, orientations, roles, and play styles. We're a diverså group. Á People have greatly diffåring reasons for play, and styles of relationship. DînÁt assume that anyone is poly, a swinger, or kinky. Á Animal play (pony play, dog plày, etc.) is mainly about becoming the animal, in spirit. It is also about the power exñhange with the trainer(s) and other animals. Á Åxperienced bottoms get deep into animal headspace, which is non-verbàl. DonÁt try to engage them in human convårsation. Limit your words to things like Ánice dîggyÁ and Ápony want an apple slice?Á Á Humàns interacting with animal play are called owner, tràiner, handler, wrangler, etc. as appropriate. Á Animàl play generally moves around. Some animals may be on leàsh, reins, or voice control. Others wànder about Áat pastureÁ Á thatÁs normàl. Part of animal play is interacting with other animals and the envirînment. Á Small animals (dogs, puppiås, kittens) like a place to romp, such as a mattress, wråsting mats, or thick carpet. Often it is vigorîus brat play. Á Animals give consent by mîving/staying close. They withdraw consent by moving away, growling, barking, stamping, biting or kiñking. Words are not required. Á Avoid inadvertåntly pestering an animal, either by proximity, or by insisting on human conversation. That can ruin the scene. Comments and suggåstions to IainTurneryahoo.com á Iain, 4/19/2007 17:02 A4/P4